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Strictly my opinion, if you wish to not like it, then we shall agree to disagree.

I think two people must go thru a long journey before they can become truly friends. It's like typical life, we were born, grow old and die. But then this is not a story until death. I can say that it's more like a story until you have become what you want to be in life. Whatever it is. This is a story much more like that. Before being someone you always wanted to be, of course you have obstacles to overcome. Sometimes you'll be raised up so high that you forgot that the ground even existed. Next thing you know, you're back on the ground. Maybe you'll die. Or maybe, a friend comes along and helps you to remember your feet. And the list goes on and on and on.

The same thing goes with two friends. They will face a lot of stages until they can settle between each other to reach that friendship level. Some just get there so easily. Then only the hardships will come. Some will face a wall of anger, jealousy, envy, or even love before they could come to that stage. Some might even not continue once they've reached certain states. Oh well. That's just sad.

For example. You two got on with a very rough patch. Either you two just hate each other or really, there's this devil between you guys. Both of you try as hard as you can to make amends but the feeling won't just go away. Well if it does, it'll be awkward so you guys think it's better to stay that way. you are not in each other's circle of friends anyway. So there's that. You're not friends nor you are enemies.

And there's this two. Clicked since day one. Did everything together. Felt glad cause you have each other because everybodyelse's just adapting but you already have a close friend. Later on, you found a flaw in him/her. Both of you quarreled about it. (Most common in my kiddy sense is the other person has another close friend) Pfft. Then, you guys realised that it's silly to have only one friend and make peace w each other. And you friendship grew closer than ever.

Or maybe this. Seldom talked. Just that one time cause you have something in common, maybe you're in the same house as him/her. Later on you realise that she/he actually exists and has soo many things in common. Or you prolly don't have that much but the chemistry is flaring. You can talk about whatever and whenever without the fear that feelings will jump into it. You call each other names and still hug each other when you're leaving. 

And there's also the typical one. Starts of w a stranger. Than an acquaintance. Later on became friends. Next, you guys are bestfriends. Then the guy confesses his love to the girl. (or vice versa, you know how men these days could be, they are extremely shy :p or girls are becoming extremely brave. Lol) They became a couple. Not more than a year, they couldn't work it out so they broke up. And that's the end.

This one. It's just the same as the above, but the diff is, after they broke up, they remain as bestfriends. And sometimes the topic came up where both of you tried to date each other. You laugh. Aww. No hard feelings ey.

And final one I think, it's like the above but they end up together, got married and have plenty of wonderful and healthy babies <3


Many to pick from ey? Just a thought that crossed my mind because I know I am experiencing one of these few (im sure there are others, im just too sleepy to think of it right now. I MUST write this down cause i know i'll forget it tmrw. Haha) and i'm trying to pick the best ending for it. all in all, we are all trying to search for the best ending. In everything. Im not sure which ending is the best, I wanna pick the last one where they get married and all but we are talking bout the journey of two strangers until they become FRIENDS right? Sooooooo it's becoming all messed up already. Haha. Hope you get my point, dear readers.

Just remember, above all, there is Allah :) So seek for his help whenever there's doubt, or fear, or uncertainty or uneasiness. (and the list goes on and on and on and onnnnn...)


alhanasabrina is super tired. *yawns

p/s: I have two new books to read, yay! Still didn't get a copy of Kopi :( Sobs.